How to plan your wedding without losing the plot: 7 brilliant tips

Hey nearlywed, congrats! You've snagged yourself a ring, and now the real adventure begins. Planning your wedding can feel a bit like juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle: exciting, a bit risky, and often completely bonkers. But don't panic! Here are seven foolproof ways to stay sane, have fun, and avoid becoming Bridezilla (because no one wants to see that).

1. Ditch the comparison game

Social media's great for inspiration, but not so great for your mental health. Remember, your wedding isn't a Pinterest board; it's your day. Embrace your quirks and imperfections; they're the bits you'll love the most later.

2. Delegate, delegate, delegate

You might be tempted to control every detail (guilty!), but trust me, your fiancé and besties can handle a few tasks. Let your mum obsess over floral quotes. Let your mates choose the cocktail menu. Less stress, more fun. Everyone loves to feel like they had a role in the day, too. 

3. Set a budget (and actually stick to It)

Real talk: weddings can drain your bank account faster than an Anthropologie sale (can't even afford that at times, tbh). Set a budget, and keep it realistic. Trust me, the less you overspend on chair covers, the more you can spend on your honeymoon experiences.

4. Make it personal, not picture-perfect

Everyone remembers weddings that feel personal and genuine, not the ones that are pristine and impersonal. Love karaoke? Have a karaoke hour. Obsessed with pizza? Midnight pizza buffet it is! Your day, your rules.

5. Embrace tech, but keep it simple

Wedding apps, guest lists, RSVPs - there’s an app for everything now. But limit yourself to one or two to avoid digital overwhelm. Bonus tip: voxu digital guestbooks (shameless plug!) capture audio messages from guests. Trust me, your drunk uncle’s heartfelt speech is worth preserving forever.

6. Plan non-wedding fun

Set aside time to hang out with your fiancé or besties without discussing table plans or seating charts. Your relationships will thank you (and you’ll stay sane).

7. Remember the big picture

It's easy to get lost in tiny details, but always circle back to the real reason you're doing this: you and your partner, starting an awesome new chapter. Keep that at the forefront, and everything else becomes easier.

So breathe, nearlywed. You’ve totally got this. And remember, even if something goes hilariously wrong, it’ll just become the story you'll laugh about later. Happy planning!